Personalities will always color my experience with people. In my Elul reflections, whether I was home or at work, the dynamics of our personalities, our voices, our chemistry impacts one another and could drive us to cooperate or block. If I get lost in the emotions, I get nothing done. Being confused by the judging of behaviors, comments and overthinking of others' decisions leads me to resentment and frustration.
Elul has given me the opportunity to see the bigger picture. Often I end posts with #lovemyjob because I am moved by what I witness - the programs, the beneficiaries, my dedicated colleagues and the compassion and generosity of donors. Meditation has taught me to focus. The practice allows me to put aside the negative forces that block me. Thoughtfulness, patience, and compassion are tools, muscles that need exercise, and values that guide me every day.
Every day is a gift. It has been said before - some days will be harder than others, some days will truly exceed my expectations. My choice is to make the best decisions for me, my family, my team and for my communities.
Day #1 of the New Year. Looking forward to a year of values in action. Joy will come as the focus continues to be on the work - at home and at the office.
Shana Tovah!
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